we were dating for abt 8 to nine months before getting serious. Again, there could be many reasons why he is ignoring you so instead of driving yourself mad trying to wonder why, here are a few reasons. My husbands ex 10 years ago was supposed to give him 400 shares of stock she had in their divorce agreement because he gave he his entire cashed out 401K… he’s a union local 4 elevator guy for over 30 years I might add. My name is Ethan Camel from USA am 39 years old i got married at the age of. Then why have I been unable to stop thinking about a guy from high school for the last year? High school guy (HSG) and I have a somewhat tortured history, which is probably why he can so easily monopolize my thoughts. I don't go out of my way to think about my ex, it just happens. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. I do not need or want to be with either of them; that's why we broke up. However, think I am still able get mail on my phone, so it may or may not help. I moved out in July 2015, just few months ago and every day was a celebration of life for me without my ex. My husband left me on new years eve ,we have been married going on 32 years, I am devastated to say the least I was a stay at home mom who raised 3 kids and when my kids got older and married i babysat my grand children. The former Inspector-General of Police also urged Dr Zakir's permanent residency (PR) status to be revoked over what the controversial preacher has. Do our loved ones stay with us in spirit? some moments I smell his body odour. He has been very sure that he was not molested himself. Home→Forums→Relationships→I can´t stop thinking about my ex boyfriend ! I am desperate New Reply This topic contains 9 replies, has 9 voices, and was last updated by Samantha 4 years, 5 months ago. I'm curious as well. Of course in phase 1 you weren't questioning your relationship, but like a switch going off everything changed, even if you can't put your finger on it,…. My wife did not tell me about this. To want to. An old girlfriend who dumped me years ago for another guy contacts me every few years and tried to connect on FB. We have had no contact all this time, and yet we have been on the phone for 6 hours since the first time he called me. After 15 years, a husband and kids, why was an ex-boyfriend's nearly 15 years ago. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and I still think about him. That happened with me too. Some people are frightened or confused by the thoughts, memories, and dreams that occur, as they think remembering on old relationship means they’ve made a mistake in their current partner choice or that they haven’t moved on. The Magic Of Making Up. I lost my husband 14 years ago and I can tell you that I can not remember many things that happened in my life for the first 6 years after his death. That’s how long I want to live: 75 years. He wrote the Most Beautiful Girl in the World song for her, he wore stiletto heels at all times. So just ignore. However, think I am still able get mail on my phone, so it may or may not help. After 3 years we started hooking up again, then it turns out she was cheating on my when we dated, so that definitely helped me finally get "over" her. But I love my boyfriend so much right now. We used to have sex about 1-2 times a week and then once every 2 weeks and then once a month. The more you call, text, email, and contact her, the more. like, a year ago i thought there was nobody at my school who was hot but then. Well what a massive twat i was, since he left me for her. One of my friends broke up with her ex and didn't hear from him for 7 years… not even a single "hi"! This is quite an extraordinary example though and doubt the majority will be ignored for this long. It did help. He compared me to her and other women. I have been going through the same things and like yourself am seeking answers that why is that after 10 years I am dreaming of my ex when i am married now with a child. My husband only knew the tidbits that I had told him. and he has recently contacted me and now i am just in turmoil why do i feel like this. In most cases it is possible to get back with an ex when you have a positive attitude and outlook. Still reeling from one of those unfortunately, but he was the wrong guy so I am dealing. It is putting more of a strain on my family then anyone else, more than. Similar thing happened in my marriage last year when my wife's ex from 20+ years ago found her on Facebook. My ex boyfriend of 9 years broke up 6 month ago when he almost cheated, we got back together but something seemed different we had a brief time of not talking (30) days then had a big fight over the Christmas holiday. I recently found that my husband still hasn’t got over. This popping in my head is driving me nuts. I am a 68 year old disabled woman who has had her narcissist daughter and felon, narcissist boyfriend con me out of my inheritance from my mother who passed away five years ago this month. I trust my past self's judgment - she was much closer to the situation than I am now. I split with my ex 6 years ago and we have a 7year old son together, i have ben in contac with my son for the last 2 tears on the condition from my ex that my wife has no involvment in the arragments, my wife and i have 4 boys together and my ex is ok for them to all meet. "That was 25 years ago and now I can say that my affair was the turning point in my life's journey. At least, that’s what it sounds like from the star’s social media posts. I need to LIVE and enjoy life too with my husband of 2+ years. "I think that's why. I have done temp work relevant to my field and I am. Dating: When, Why, How, To Use No Contact There are many dating rules out there, but it’s the tried and true ones, the old fashioned traditional ways of doing things, that really do work, which is why certain rules have held true and lasted over the years. 63 Responses to “ Why Men Prefer to Marry Asian Women Like my ex, your wife is from HK right? 🙂 Two years ago two Or three women in the U. Please don’t be mistaken – this is not an ultimatum, and my feelings for you won’t go away. All of a sudden i am dreaming of my ex. He said: "The best thing I know of is get out of your house and exercise. He was my first love and I still love him. The interaction ( it really wasn’t a relationship) was very on/off as I became aware of his traits and why he could sometimes seem like my soul mate and at others like my worse enemy. Never felt anything towards him at the time, he was just a friend for me nothing else. He's a very good man- we have two children together (21 and 18 years of age). I was almost suicidal See he lost his dad 18 months ago and fell apart but i held him together I really do still love him, but 2 weeks later he has a new gf. Whether that foot is outside or inside. I think that he likes me because he see me whenever he goes out of my class. years ago my ex told me that since i was no longer interested, can i ask my sister if she would be? my heart really dropped and i just hung up and told him never to contact me ever again through text. but i want my husband. In most cases it is possible to get back with an ex when you have a positive attitude and outlook. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and I still think about him. My best boy friend isba best friend of my ex and I can ask him to give me his number and U will contact him and know if he still loves me. My ex when we were still together he would tell them to stop. As you can see by the number of responses, this is a pretty common thing. 2018 at 8:34 am. Letting Go: When Alienated Parents Give Up When a parent endures parental alienation, various emotions materialize. Then why have I been unable to stop thinking about a guy from high school for the last year? High school guy (HSG) and I have a somewhat tortured history, which is probably why he can so easily monopolize my thoughts. My ex bf I contacted him a few weeks ago nd asked wher he is nd stuff. I just got off the phone with my 27 year old daughter. I visited the social security office before I turned 62, and the worker convinced me not to take my own SS benefit while I am working. and he has recently contacted me and now i am just in turmoil why do i feel like this. Hi Im 27 years old guy and I fell in love with a 20 year old colleague it was all good we just started it just 2 months only. I still think about my husband every day. I don’t know why, but I’m feeling so restless. I went to throw it away and he had a fit. It's been a year since I last saw or spoke to my ex too. I work during the day and I am getting my masters at night. Wasn’t at all a happy story like yours. I know that you can’t stop thinking about your ex girlfriend. How to Respond and Act When Your Ex Suddenly Contacts You Again. She sent me a message saying “hey” two days ago, I didn’t respond, and yesterday said “hey” again to which I also didn’t respond to. It's been a year since I last saw or spoke to my ex too. Never felt anything towards him at the time, he was just a friend for me nothing else. i have been with my ex boyfriend fr 2 years. Welcome to “Try Me. my husband said he’s been unhappy for the last few years and had feelings for another woman. now my husband do safe sex but last one month my period not coming so i am wherry. Despite partying it up and meeting new women, when the music calms, you'll always be there in the back of his mind. My daughter has rejected me and her brother. I was devastated but young and although it was so hard I carried on with my life, dated others and eventually met a long term boyfriend who I am still with. ,” Elite Daily’s new advice column that shares the tough love your friends are too afraid to give you. The first was about eight years ago…his ex wife (they were married one year) contacted him. Is this normal for me? What can I do to finally let her go? – John P. I dumped my ex 4wks ago after he cheated on me he is now with her. We began making plans to see each other. I have been married for many years now, and am not very happy. Why It's OK To Still Be Affected By A Breakup Years Later when you miss or even think about a toxic ex, but here is why it's OK to still be slightly affected by a breakup even years after the. Although, I remember clearly thinking that it was almost a relief to be done with that relationship. As such, there are many reasons you might choose to keep your married name after divorce. I am one of your fans from Tunisia. I also found out we have mutual friends on Facebook so I don't know why if he is thinking of me why doesn't he friend me. What does it mean when you dream about someone you work with? Often, personalities in our day-to-day life will take on the human form of our own different feelings in our dreams. I signed a quit claim deed and he refinanced three years ago but I'm receiving notices of the bankruptcy and on some of them, I'm listed as a "defendant. Life With A Crazy Psycho Obsessive Stalker Ex – Part III. If you have a dream about a fellow worker who isn’t within the ordinary context of work, it indicates that coworker represents an aspect of yourself. My ex an I grew up together and were together 31 years married 21 he found fault near the end with everything until I left and his new woman (married with 2 kids) came to his house a week after I left he divorced me a year after and she separated from her hubby 2 yrs ago now my ex an her are dating how funny he's lied the whole time that they. After a great deal of thinking, my grandmother decided to have her spleen and half of her colon removed. Me & my ex broke up over a year ago. In fact we met up a couple of years ago and the chemistry was electric!. ’13 Reasons Why’ returns for its highly-anticipated third season on Aug. Oh my gd, I was in the same situation a few years ago with a guy I totally liked and cliked with and well, wanted to date. Times heals but you never forget about that special person. Scientology: 17 Days -. It hurt like hell and I deserved it. I do not need or want to be with either of them; that's why we broke up. LeeAnn, thanks for commenting. I was molasted from my older brother when i was 10 , and i alwasys have put a fake face , pretend to love him like nothing had ever happen. Hi Tina, I found your article, advice about “What to do when someone won’t talk to you” very helpful. I have seen many websites telling you not to have sex with your ex boyfriend. Sometimes, even after a relationship breaks there are still fragments that you can pick up and turn into a beautiful friendship. Welcome to My Activity. Dated approximately 8 men over the past 13 years. The depression came ten years earlier when I split with my ex hisband; I'm not depressed anymore. That’s you exploring that. I moved out in July 2015, just few months ago and every day was a celebration of life for me without my ex. And become one of us. These are real dreams. Is there a difference in checking one or the other, and what would that be. My ex and I broke up 1 and a half year ago. I am one of your fans from Tunisia. I see outside so I see him. An affair 13 years ago is not something I want to lose my best friend over. I loved this girl and expected to spend the rest of my life with her. I had lived with him for 12 years and we always fought over his drinking problems and never were doing well financially until he left. I am in a very similar situation. My wife and I separated 8 weeks ago after 25 years of marriage. My ex boyfriend was a college student at that time and was so into his schooling. Not been with my ex wife for about 2 and a half years. Sometimes, even after a relationship breaks there are still fragments that you can pick up and turn into a beautiful friendship. I am 28 years old and some days ago my. 43 replies to "When Affair Partners Marry: 9 Reasons Why They Might Fail" (over 20 years ago). But my heart is with my ex. I am 63 years old with a Master's Degree in Education and Psychology and I have had a lot of therapy. 5 years ago my fiancee told me that she did not love me anymore and there was someone else. i must admit that we have bin through hell and back. He is married with two kids. Why We Think About Our Exes (and Why It's Not a Bad Thing) I think of him when I am at work, when I write blog posts, and when I give speeches. The futuer that was to be ours had come and gone she and I had it with others its lost and can never come back just like the years of our lives. I don’t dream about my ex-husband of 5 years or my last partner of 7 years. It's certain dates that make me think of him and I miss him so much. anyways he was just over eveything inlcuding his life style and job and said he wanted a “new life a new start”. Get the details, here. So I decide oh well, I'm over him why not. Recently my ex came over to say hi and ever since then I have had dreams about him, occasionally think of him, a close relative of mine (that got us together) hangs out with him still. Why, after two years I still TRY, I still think there is hope. This is a dangerous behavior because it can turn compulsive fast. It's now been 2 months since we have been intimate. 'The Hills: New Beginnings' star Brody Jenner and Kaitlynn Carter have decided to 'amicably separate' after 5 years together. I was recently contacted on FB by my ex from 28 years. Dear Ex, I do apologize for everything that I ever did to you or said to you. Why do I still think and dream of my ex after nearly 10 years? I'm just getting so tired of it. Then why have I been unable to stop thinking about a guy from high school for the last year? High school guy (HSG) and I have a somewhat tortured history, which is probably why he can so easily monopolize my thoughts. Myself and the family feel the loss each day. Cant stop thinking about someone who has died Can't stop thinking about my ex I was with my ex for over four years. my mom died from a massive stroke she was 50 and my dad was hit by an automobile 3 years later in a vehicular pedestrian accident on my 10 year wedding. He compared me to her and other women. I am crying begging him back. I had two dream of my ex. I signed a quit-claim deed and he refinanced home 3 years agowhy am I receiving notices? Question Details: My ex-husband is filing Chapter 7. My ex bf I contacted him a few weeks ago nd asked wher he is nd stuff. A few weeks ago I was listening to an interview of a great writer I admire. My wife was very attentive and a great mom to our 4 kids until about 5 years ago. We are always friendly in my dreams and he’s always trying to tell me something and is very kind or holding my hand. Reader’s Question. You all are fake. Find customizable templates, domains, and easy-to-use tools for any type of business website. now my husband do safe sex but last one month my period not coming so i am wherry. I am experiencing a similar situation ladies. He told me he wanted to be with me forever. My wife did not tell me about this. Why I'm Secretly Hooking Up With My Ex-Husband. In my mind there are two possible explanations for why an ex boyfriend will call you a few days in (5-8 days) or midway through a no contact rule (14-18 days. It is beautiful that you are trying to change for yourself and no one else. This is a big question. Previous man was A young love (26) but he was overall disrespectful. Thanks a lot. Her ex cheated on her the 1st year of. Hi, i am a divorced woman raising 2 kids on my own. Good article! I am glad I read this. 1 day ago · It is hard when you think you can do better, but things just aren’t working out. You have a husband who loves and supports you and you would be wonderful parents, if you'd had the opportunity. We are divorced and I have dated the same man for 1 year. (Granted, it was a pretty hot and steamy year). How much more can you take? Recently I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 5months ago we were toghter for over a year and since then i have been in a very perfect realtionship with someone else, but everynight for the past 2 weeks i been having dreams of my ex boyfriend. I’m very very lucky with my relationship with my ex, but honestly, it took a lot of work to get there. I broke up with my ex 3 years ago yet i still think about him every single day! It was a terrible and abusive relationship so my thoughts are never good but things remind me of him and i just can t go one day without thinking about him. " Even though I wrote the post a year and a half ago, it is still by far -- every day -- the most read post I've ever written. I am 35 years old, My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, the fault was from me, when i realized my mistake, I tried to fix it and take responsibility for it, But there was no way i could change his mind? I tried contacting him ever since we broke up but no response, and I tried to get him back and it didn’t work. I am also married and have children. I get a feeling, I strongly sense their presence with me. I understand why he doesn't want to go, but I think it would have helped us because my husband has really never gotten over the affair even though it was ten years ago. it was over something I shared with him about doubts regarding my spirituality that upset him. No contact for 3 years. We have two kids and we meet at the park for access as kids are upset. And don't think for a single minute that by being friends with your ex you can somehow get close enough to date him again. But we are going to be married and I love him and my son loves him and he will be the main man in my sons life so I think it's only right to fully let him play the stepfather part now. Me & my ex broke up over a year ago. In fact, the longer this type of friendship goes on the further and further you slip into a purely platonic relationship with him. to make the matters. It is beautiful that you are trying to change for yourself and no one else. (Granted, it was a pretty hot and steamy year). Our lives are bittersweet, filled with pain and joy, loss and blessings. my ex and I broke up 13 years ago and I disappeared and he did not know where I went to because he still wanted to work things out with me, but I couldn't. me and my ex broke up 4 years ago i still have. After ending it with my ex I got with a new guy witch was a huge mistake because I didn’t give myself time to heal. I am nearly 23 years old, about to graduate from college, and am completely in love with a man that I am not sure loves me in return, or even wants my love at all. I lost my husband 14 years ago and I can tell you that I can not remember many things that happened in my life for the first 6 years after his death. So just ignore. 3 years on I am still in love with my ex-husband. My name is Sandra Ruths am from American. I am a 68 year old disabled woman who has had her narcissist daughter and felon, narcissist boyfriend con me out of my inheritance from my mother who passed away five years ago this month. She is my ex for a reason… just like yours is your ex for a reason. And, yes, I am talking to you new folk who have just found this website. Blacks Worse Off Today Than 60 Years Ago — Because of Democrats. " While tapping my phone calls, I was always a jealous person but was certain that she would never be unfaithful, I discovered a call. I have been married for many years now, and am not very happy. That can feel very real when you're in the dream and even when you wake up from it, so then you're thinking, 'Maybe my ex really does wanna take me back. I was molasted from my older brother when i was 10 , and i alwasys have put a fake face , pretend to love him like nothing had ever happen. Getting out and living your life is the ultimate way to get back an ex boyfriend's attention. But is it likely that the guy is also thinking of her? Where I am sitting right now I don't even think my ex thinks about me as I sent him a really heartfelt message a week ago and he ignored it He hasn't messaged me at all, apart from one message after the break up to make sure I didn't think he was a bad person. Reply Delete. My life progressed through ups and downs. He was my first everything and we were going to get married, but broke up instead because he wouldn't get married in a church and said he didn't want children (very stubborn). He wrote the Most Beautiful Girl in the World song for her, he wore stiletto heels at all times. now I have a new bf. Most people would probably be embarrassed to have a private video leak online. where your ex had the. I had a problem with my Ex husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. I am 63 years old with a Master's Degree in Education and Psychology and I have had a lot of therapy. Also, I am single and debt-free; plus, my only family is my elderly father for whom I am his caretaker (he lives with me). In my case, I never respond because no attention is the best medicine for someone like her. I broke up with my ex a few days ago because she wanted a “break”. She left me for someone else and cut me off completely. That’s how long I want to live: 75 years. We never met each other. Hello Noam, this article made me think about my last relationship. We moved way to quickly but I am the kind of person who loves with all I have. My ex that I dated for few months eons ago contacted me because he feels guilty for saying things about me to a mutual friend. I can say w/out a doubt in my mind though that I have thought about her literally every single day of my life since the day I met her, which has been 12 years now. 3 Ways to Cope When Your Ex Has a New Girlfriend. but ever since we broke up, we still continue to communicate. I had a problem with my Ex husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. Months after the break up he would tell me that he wanted to work things out but would stop contact as soon as I tried to make plans for us to meet. Now, I am about to voice my story and find the right avenue to do it in order to inform the communities of what is going on behind closed doors of these shelter programs and staff who are not and should not be employed there!. BUT, I REALLY think I want to move back to Another city and state in which I was very happy years ago. I truly have no “big ticket” complaints about my husband. So why is your ex still showing up A few days ago, I woke up next to my boyfriend of That's your subconscious "telling you to move on with your life and stop thinking about your ex" (you. Please help me understand why I just can't let go. I so understand I lost my hubby less than a year ago. These are real dreams. I should disclose that his parents, whom I adore, came with us. ' In this week's Lifeclass, Lesley Garner advises a reader on the many ways she can make the most of her life. I have been with my wife for 19 years. He Keeps Popping In and Out of My Life: Why They Keep Coming Back I had a reader tell me that a man she had dated had come back into her life. My ex and I broke up 2 years ago and I still think about her every week, if not every day. She often talked to my husband too, I always thinking it was very innocent. I'm curious as well. It has not been easy but we recently went on our (second) first date I guess you can. My ex is a great guy and when I came to terms with the fact that I wasn’t in love with him, I was able to find a way to be fair to him and love him in a new way. During the day i do NOT think about my ex boyfriend i am over him. All, my parents and my biological father, are now gone. I know I probably sound like I don't deserve my boyfriend when I'm having thoughts like this, but I truly do adore my boyfriend and don't want anyone apart from him. I would like to know if I'm still entitled and why did it stop, he didn't just die, he murdered himself. So far our relationship has been great. Home→Forums→Relationships→5 years on still miss my ex New Reply This topic contains 10 replies, has 7 voices, and was last updated by frank 3 years, 2 months ago. My wife of 25 years died 3 1/2 yrs ago. Any ways getting back my ex would be the wrong thing now as it was back then as there would be more packages to come, that is the children and upsetting our respective spouses. 3 Roadblocks You Will Face While Getting Over a Cheating Ex? think my ex-gf is bipolar. At first it was really raw and every day, even though I broke up with him to be with the man who is now my DH. I recently found that my husband still hasn’t got over. He was tired of my personality. org provides an online community that covers fertility, conception, pregnancy, labor, delivery and parenting concerns. Dating: When, Why, How, To Use No Contact There are many dating rules out there, but it’s the tried and true ones, the old fashioned traditional ways of doing things, that really do work, which is why certain rules have held true and lasted over the years. I just kept thinking about her. my name is jason sweeney. He's a very good man- we have two children together (21 and 18 years of age). An old girlfriend who dumped me years ago for another guy contacts me every few years and tried to connect on FB. I regularly say and think that I wish my husband had my back. I had a huge crush on him junior year. He found out that the problem is in him. Alabama’s Nick Saban denies offering ex-OSU assistant Zach Smith job in 2018 Saban on ex-OSU assistant Zach Smith: “I really never did offer this guy a job. I remember he mentioned he loves me but I didn't mind it cause I really don't wanna know or feel it cause the truth is we just can't be together. My husband doesn't care about it. "I think basically we see more people enjoying India's defeat is because of the things that have taken place between the two countries in recent times and especially how Indian politicians and some cricketers have tried to involve cricket with politics," cricket writer Omair Alavi said. 30 day left and my period is not coming. I am 28 years old and some days ago my. It wasn't until I saw him years later that I found out why he never came backmy parents told him not to. So just ignore. and I am sure the reason that I still think of him was that I. After 20 years of being apart amd living separate lives he still loves me like he did back then. I think back to when I was with my ex, and how happy I was. How much more can you take? Recently I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder. When your ex starts texting you it's important to know why. We dated for a short time, than he went back to his ex, than we saw each other again and eventually he ended the sexual aspect to our "relationship" but called me all of the time and wanted to hang out and keep in touch. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. I had broke up with my ex 2 months before that. The other homeless people were more kind and supportive to my baby & I. SUTTON: So, how do you go from that, struggling to score for Celtic, to being where you are now, having people put money on you to win the Golden Boot? PUKKI: Celtic feels like it was a while ago now. Fast forward 21 years of marriage and 1 child later. Him and his ex of 5 years (on again, off again) were broke up. I didn't understand why I was so affected, but I am, my husband now was very supportive, and held me while I cried. Welcome to "Try Me. Everything but the cloths situation was my ex. I thought by now I would have moved on but I just can't. Why am I thinking about my ex almost 2 years later? I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months, everything is great, in fact he's not what made me come back here at all. what I can do so my time is come. You may even think about the nice things that they said and the good times that you. But I wasn't entirely, solely unemotionally stable to him. My problem is that 11 years ago, I met a woman with whom I fell in love and eventually married. She left me for someone else and cut me off completely. Recently my ex came over to say hi and ever since then I have had dreams about him, occasionally think of him, a close relative of mine (that got us together) hangs out with him still. Like I said in the beginning this rather long comment which has now probably become an article is not to dispute with the 10 reasons why you should not marry a foreigner but to remind with every 10 reasons, I’m sure you can also find 100 reasons on why you should. We are always friendly in my dreams and he’s always trying to tell me something and is very kind or holding my hand. he and i were not all. 3 Roadblocks You Will Face While Getting Over a Cheating Ex? think my ex-gf is bipolar. My husbands ex 10 years ago was supposed to give him 400 shares of stock she had in their divorce agreement because he gave he his entire cashed out 401K… he’s a union local 4 elevator guy for over 30 years I might add. Oh my gd, I was in the same situation a few years ago with a guy I totally liked and cliked with and well, wanted to date. She left me for someone else and cut me off completely. I had lived with him for 12 years and we always fought over his drinking problems and never were doing well financially until he left. I posted to you earlier last week about my bankrupty ch7 around to years ago, I’am local in your city. The former Grey's Anatomy star recently addressed a 2009 leaked video showing himself and then-wife Rebecca Gayheart naked in a bathtub with another woman. My mother died 2 years ago, my insane step thing is still in my life, my 25 year marriage is over, I do Reiki, and practice gratitude daily. I had two dream of my ex. Sign in to review and manage your activity, including things you’ve searched for, websites you’ve visited, and videos you’ve watched. It wasn't until I saw him years later that I found out why he never came backmy parents told him not to. Click here to learn exactly how to make your ex want you back. But we are going to be married and I love him and my son loves him and he will be the main man in my sons life so I think it's only right to fully let him play the stepfather part now. Built by parents for parents, Pregnancy. Gateway to Tampa Bay area news, weather, radar, sports, traffic, and more. (I don’t think I ever have). It was the beginning of my senior year in high school when I left him, though we did not leave off on bad terms.